SELF-CONFIDENCE
- Patrycja Szreder
- Aug 24, 2021
- 2 min read
Self-Confidence.
It all starts with it. It directly affects every aspect of our lives. How we perceive ourselves, how we look like, how we behave, what relationships we create, how we build relationships with others, as well as what earnings we achieve, what results in business we achieve. It all starts with self-confidence.
So what is it? Some say it is a character trait, others that it is a state, or an attitude. One thing is for sure. Regardless of what you call it, it is not given to you once and for all. It's not that if you're not self-confident today, you'll always be that way. That's good news, isn't it? Because if you are not optimistic about the analysis of your self-confidence now, it means that you can work on it! Improve! Increase! So how? Are you ready for this?
The level of self-confidence shows how well we feel with ourselves, how much we believe in our competencies, skills, possibilities, and whether we accept who we are.
There are a number of factors that influence your true, full, inner self-confidence (not the one you take for a moment to "show" how strong you are in a given situation). Interior and exterior. True self-confidence takes years to shape.
The first extremely important issue that results from self-confidence is awareness and, mindfulness. Noticing exactly what we think and feel at the moment. You know, not many people have this trait. They usually follow (and make decisions) their lives based on a series of false premises, without analyzing what they really think and feel at a given moment.
The second issue is the so-called self-acceptance. And here you should very much analyze your attitude towards yourself. How do you see yourself? Do you like yourself? Do you fully accept who you are? How do you behave? I don't mean that you have to thoughtlessly worship yourself (although there's nothing wrong with self-love), it's not that you don't have to work on yourself. I ask you if you accept yourself in general and if you are working on the details.
Self-confidence is believing in yourself, it is trust in the actions you take and decisions you make.
I don't think I need to convince you that the high level of self-confidence you display plays an extremely important role in your life. You will not build a successful business without self-confidence. You cannot win a case in court without the confidence and activity that you display in conducting it. Forget about lucrative contracts if you're insecure. Trade negotiations? Believe me, your opponent will sense your lack of confidence sooner than you think. Automatically your negotiating position will be understated.
As I mentioned at the beginning of this article, you can (and even you have to) work on self-confidence. There is only one condition, you must feel responsible for your life.
So, are you ready to take the welds into your own hands? I am happy to share with you a number of techniques and exercises that will help you achieve a level of self-confidence you have never known before!

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